Turn OFF….
What does your partner or romantic interest do that turns you OFF?
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My partner doesn’t do anything that turns me off that’s one of the reasons I know I’ve found my life partner. However, in the past I’ve had plenty of major turn offs like:
*Before sex lady growled at me like a wild animal. Very scary!
*While undressing for sex a woman cried a told the story of her breast and how one was a full cup size smaller that the other.
*Another female told me that she wanted to smoke me like a “jay”. I got scared, I didn’t if she wanted to have sex or bust a cap in me.
*I’ve had my clitoris bit. This shit was very painful!!!! I still believe she should have run that pass me first.
*And finally a permanent mood blower was finding out that my lover was unfaithful. Needless to say our relationship became an open one.
Ok, my turn off is. Now see my mind just went blank.
I don’t currently have a lover but when I did she used to turn me off by getting pissy drunk and iniating sex but passed out before she could get some! Total turn off! And now when I date women and they talk too much before doing anything, total turn off. I don’t want to hear about your car or your visit with your momma right when I am about to get some! HELLO!
Did you say turn off - Here goes: Can you say NASTY?, and Im not talking Janet Jackson NASTY). Sweet on the outside and sour on the inside - WHOO! Everyone can understand sweating after a hard day at work but damn wash your ass before you get wit a DOM. There’s nothing like being in the mood, all ready to get busy AND scurrrrrr… (hand in face) you stink. HOLLA.
lol!!!!!!!!!! ok i have to laugh at sensual nydom now, that was funny and like u said NASTY! sh$@@ u don’t have to be dom just a women period. How can u go to someone and expect for them to have sex with u or even four play and u stink! femme or dom u are still a woman and u are suppose to take care of your hygiene damn! and as for assata, yeah u had alot of scary things. well i can’t really say anything cause i’m not in a relationship nor seeing anyone so i can’t really put anything out there damn! ( not yet) lol!!!!! but in the past yeah the thing i really hate is when a person want to get between the legs and dont’ know what the hell they are doing! i dont’ like it hard and u biting me like that be gentle and know what u are doing before u put your head between my legs!!!!!!!
jay, i know u are trying to be nice and dont’want to put anything wrong out there but i’m waiting for a good response, and where is sha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! waiting for your remarks 
Ok, here we go. what turns me off.
* Arguing about dumb stuff just to make up. If you want to lets just do it. I don’t need a lot to turn me on, but a lot can turn me off.
* hmm, i would agree about the odor issue. That can be quite a turn off, too bad I haven’t had that experience.
* Not having your toes done, and eyebrows done IS A VERY BIG TURNOFF. I can’t help it, but I feel if you take care of that, you will take care of other stuff.
* And last but not least, BAD BREATH. Don’t even get me started on the breath that could burn my eyelashes off.
lol!!!!!!!!!! ok you got me jay see that’s the response i was looking for. yeah, i feel ya on the bad breathe thang. see now that was some good turn off stuff and good ones. okay so where is sha!!!!!!!!!!
I want to hear from the fems on what turns them off. And don’t talk about if we don’t pay for something.
#5 = Ignorance - Women who never read, think, or explore anything.
#4 = Low Self-Esteem - Dependency. Expecting to be raised like a child.
#3 = Selfishness - Double standards. Expecting me to cut my friends off.
#2 = Drama - Ex’s, baby daddies, insecurity, & lack of humility (i.e. broads who use the word “ghetto” as if they don’t live around the corner and up the block!)
#1 = “Ooch Ouch Girls” - Take it like women!
LYING IS THE BIGGEST TURN-OFF FOR ME. Be ture to thy own self.
Women who are afraid to try new things and bring boredom to the bedroom. Women that are not in touch with themselves enough to let go of rules and old ways of doing things. Theses are truly turn offs to me in the bedroom…not to forget hair!!! Hairy stuff i.e. legs, underarms and/or not being waxed or shaved very closely…lol
Sexually-someone who’s not open minded and not willing to try new things
In general-people who talk a whole lot but about absolutely nothing
I’m a Supa Fem and a turn off 4 me is - being as tho I don’t strap up but when I do go down pls allow urself (Doms) 2 cum and enjoy it — it doesn’t make u a punk if u squill and scream like a girl cause it does feel good — thats what I experienced n my last relationship and it was a complete turn off
1. WoMen who dig me for being “different” and then decide I’m too different *straight face*
2. A WoMan who has no real life goals and no idea and or intention on establishing some
3. Shallow WoMen
4. Irresponsible WoMen
5. Ditto on the Selfish WoMen
Chile, the list could go on and on…
And just in case you are wondering, I’m not a dom/butch WoMan so there’s another the non-dom perspective.
This is 4 KC…thanks 4 missing me! Turnoffs include the following:
1. Lying 2 me when I ask a direct question…I usually know the answer so don’t do it!
2. Having bad personal hygiene is a no-no!
3. Believing that ignorance is bliss…snap out of it, it’s not!
4. Having no ambition…the status quo is not acceptable!
5. Being inhibited in the bedroom…like Prince says: when 2 r n luv, nothing is forbidden,nothing is taboo!
I think that’s enuff but if not, I’m sure KC will let me know…lol!
Ok, I finally thought of some other things that turn me off.
1. Clothes. Don’t go to be with a bunch of damn clothes on, that makes it hard to start something late at night. (*wink*)
2. When you do try to start something late at night or early in the morning. Don’t be acting like you are still sleep, when you know damn well you are up and enjoying it.
3. Telling someone you are trying to get down with, what your ex-lover did in the bed so you can do the same thing.
1. Someone not washing their hands after they used the bathroom. (I didn’t hear the water turn on and off)lol
2.Dirty fingernails,and you plan to do what with those?
3.Bad Breath! who’s got some tic tacs?
4.I am an aggresive fem but eveytime? What the?!?!
5. How do you have a Bad Ass Car and no where to live?
6. Question?….why do you choose not to shave your underarm hair? It’s showing through you clothes!!! and by the way, please don’t raise your arm…you are not sure! Does someone have an extra tee-shirt?
7.ok, let me make sure I understand… I just spent two hours cooking you a fabulous meal after I worked a 10hour day and you were off and are too tierd to help clean up? (ever heard of dishwasher?)
8. Promises of how you are going to “take me” tonight and make me feel like the woman I am…oh no you didn’t fall asleep while I was in the shower!
9. But she’s my Best Friend…funny, I don’t remember you getting so much as a Happy Birthday e-mail this year…
10. “Tonight you are going to forget you’ve ever had sex with anyone else…ever….” ok…so….uhm….have you started yet…Damn!?
I can’t believe I did not mention women who think it is cool to be irresponsible with their money…I mean fa real…I don’t need you to take care of me cause I got this.. but if you can’t even take care of you??? PAY YOUR BILLS!
But I’m not bitter…LMAO
Turn off - bisexual women. Don’t climb over that fence to get to me. I don’t want him in my bed (if you know what I mean.)
Silly women
Lack of humor
Women that don’t strive for better things for themselves.
Women with bad credit. All you have is your good name. Why mess it up?
Flirts.
The women that buy that special outfit - wear it out to the club and return it the next day. If you couldn’t afford it in the first place leave it in the store.
Head games, your too old for that.
If you have kids, take care of them. Don’t look good and your kids look like trash.
COOK! CLEAN! Share! Sharing is very important. I don’t ask for much. Just be a real women. If you cook I’ll clean. Or I’ll cook and clean. Just be a good partner. I have your back and you have mine.
Don’t blow off your kids when I come over. They still need to be loved.
Get a freakin car. I don’t drive cabs for a living.
DJ,
I’m with u on the kid thang. If u mistreating your kid(s), I don’t wanna get with u on any level. I’ve experieced that one a few times—how can u treat me with kindness but treat your kid(s) like shit?
DJ,
I’m with u on the kid thang. If u mistreating your kid(s), I don’t wanna get with u on any level. I’ve experieced that one a few times—how can u treat me with kindness but treat your kid(s) like shit? Complete TURNOFF!!
WHAT’S WRONG WITH BEING BI-SEXUAL. small MINDS TURN ME OFF!!!!
Turn Offs
1)If you speak to me and your breakfast, lunch and dinner from yesterday is still lodged in your teeth. 2) If your breath has me checking my shoes to see if I stepped in dog pooh. 3) If you lie about who you are, where you been, and what you’ve been doing 4) If all you do is talk about yourself, and yet to have said anything.
It does not take a lot to turn me off in which I can be turn on and off like a light switch at anytime.
I agree with Taz that sexually, someone who is not open-minded and not willing to try new things are a big turn off.
Also I totally agree with Jay about the arguing about dumb stuff just to make up or just dumb stuff in general is a BIG turn off for me in the worst way.
BIGGEST TURN OFFS are drug users & abusers.. it’s so not sexy. Get high on life..& Yes.. ” SAY NO TO DRUGS ”
Imma have to somewhat piggy back off of you Kuum007 bc my biggest turn offs are DRUNKS! I mean pissy drunk……….. (YUCK!) :/
BAD BREATH- And what made it worse was she would always chew cinnamon gum. I’m sorry, but that makes your mouth smell like ass…that’s just my opinion. Cinnamon gum should be taken off the market!
Un-groomed Genitalia/Underarm- Just because you’re a stud does not make it ok to walk around like Sasquatch. I’m gonna need some of the studs to invest in some clippers, shavers, waxing kits, tweezers or whatever you need to do to handle that situation.
Messy/Ghetto women- Women that have no type of COUTH. They’re loud at all times. Overly aggressive at all times. Make scenes in public. They don’t understand that they’re is a time and place for everything. And just have no home training whatsoever.
Bad kissers- Women who damn near perform a tonsillectomy on you are SO not attractive. Enough said.
What turns me off?
1. having no motivation or goals
2. odors
3. liars
4. passive women
5.feminine women who pretend to be so agressive and straight bitches in bed
6. being late
7. cry babies
8. beating around the bush- be blunt about what you want
9. not being yourself
1. A dom sometimes think they don’t need to shower before just because they think a fem is not going to handle her business anyway. No, it doesn’t work that way. I want to smell fresh punany too!!
2. Being too clingy,
3. Forgetting important dates.
4. Not following through on promises.
5. Fitting the bill of: If your head wasn’t attached to your shoulders, you will forget that too!!!
There are a few things I can add to all this just as each individual knows that in some way we will all fit into someone else’s catagory of peeves…for real, so let’s not kid ourselves but know we can sometimes falter in leading by example that’s human nature…There is nothing wrong with wanting to find that perfect woman and hope that she will be everything that doesn’t irriate us but certain exacts are not so scientific to figure out LOL!!! so let’s all hope we don’t go through 100 women to think we will find one that may have all the characteristics of what we consider PERFECT.
I work to strive for happiness for myself, family and let’s face it sometimes even those thing aren’t enough when we even look for those characteristics from potential Life partners. Think about this Blue Collar workers are always necessary to have functionality in the world of realistic views so, If an individual(man, woman,lesbian etc.) makes a career from picking up the waste on scheduled days of Mon and Wed in a alley from the residences of people would we call them having passive tendencies as well as no gumption for a better life???? Let’s just hope that they know to do the necessary HYGEINE..that’s it and that’s all.
I don’t like women that are too easy to get. She has to make it a challenge for me because it is complete turn off for me no matter how attractive she is. I notice that in this lifstyle it is easier to get what you want out of a women and think that is due to vulnerablity. I could never take advantage of another woman because it wouldn’t be right. I figure if you are the type that would take advantage of a situation like that then you must be vulnerale too. I like a woman who is going to make me chase that. From what I understand when a woman makes you wait the sex is outstanding when you finally do become intimate.