Worst date?….
What was the worst date you have ever had?
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It was when I was seeing guys. This fool fell asleep in the movie theater and was not shy about it at all. I am a serious movie fanatic, so I saw that as totally rude! Especially if the movie is good. I’m too much a great date to be tired when you come see me. Take a nap before hand, you know. But, the ladies have all been pretty good.
(Ugh ^) Anyway…
I was rappin’ to these broads when my best friend and I were about 16 (’95/96). The broads were infamous in the “Interhigh Circle,” and one had a very distinct characteristic.
So we jacked a ride and went to the broad’s house. Man, when we got there the broad I was supposed to talk looked like a cow! It was as if somebody skeeted on her face and forgot to wipe it off! I didn’t want to be cruel, but I was shocked! First of all she wasn’t slim she was jive meaty, and the long hair she said she had was a weave. To top that off, she wasn’t even our age. She had lil BeBe’s runnin’around and everything.
I grabbed a newspaper and put it up to my face trying to get my best friend’s attention so we could get the hell outta there, but she - the comedian humored the broads. When they asked which one of us was which I kept telling the girl I was my best friend, and she kept telling the other broad she was me. We laughed for a while then said we were going to the store, and never ever, ever went back.
Blind dates are always the worst because the broads don’t tell the truth. Using your sexy voice to brag about how good you look on the phone when your face is really kilt, is a quick way to get disrespected by shallow teenagers (or nowadays internet chatters).
Broads? mmm… interesting.
I don’t think I ever had a worst date, but it is interesting reading others worst date experiences.
My, my, my — “broads” ?
. Well to the subject at hand I don’t believe I’ve ever had a “bad date” until recently. And believe it or not it was with my “ex-partner”. For all you ladies out there that think you can not do without the “celly,” listen and take heed. We were out supposely having a quality time dinner, when she placed her cell on the table and proceeded to take calls from “friends” during the entire meal. No emergency — just a need to express to me her “importance in everyone’s lives” And you wonder why “ex?”
The use of the word broads bothers you but you’re on a lesbian blog posting comments about guys…Now THAT is interesting!
My worst date ever was with a WOMAN who I was in love with and I did something that I don’t wish to discuss that resulted in her losing her keys. Her not being able to find her keys in the middle of February at about three in the morning pissed her off. So the after date sex I thought I was going to have was canceled and replaced with her asking me to leave. I was hurt but I prevailed…
Hmmm. I never expected this site to be a place where haters would roam, but it never fails does it? Well, I never specified in my comment when in my lifetime that date with a man was. It could have been ten years ago! And as many lesbians understand, the transition to being who you really are encompasses many trials, tribulations, hardships and mistakes. Do, I know that I am a full on woman loving lesbian, now? Abso-fucking-lutely! And if the comment was read correctly you would have gotten the BIG picture that my lesbian life is obviously way more rewarding than the life I was leading with men because I’ve never had a bad date with a woman. In fact, almost every woman I’ve ever been with, I’m still on very good terms with and even hang out with sometimes. Do, I still have a problem with the use of the word broads in reference to any female? Yes. Whether someone is gay, straight, blue or green, their sexual preference and which websites they choose to voice their opinions on is in no way a basis for how they should feel about a word.
I was about to light into a couple (literally 2) asses when I 1st read these lil comments but I think my girl handled it well (even tho it was a bit hisiddity just like her ass [*muah*] and not as mean as I woulda liked it to be, Imma let it do what it do).
With that being said my worst date was with this girl that had a problem with girls that proclaim to be lesbians but have been with men b4 (now u c y I was beyond annoyed w/those 2 fake ass losers). So the entire date, not realizing that I was just one of those girls at one point in my life, shes goin and goin about how those girls arent really gay and probably cant give good head and probably need to douche once and week and blah blah blah…so shorty goes on and on the whole time we chillin about this shit and im just laughin, smiling, nodding and shakin my head. mind u we been chillin 4 a minute so this isnt the 1st time we spent this much time around each other and this damn sure wasnt the first dumb ass stereotypical theory she had either. so im used to her dumbness, but this one here, it was beyond dumb…
so finally, AFTA I blazed all her greenery, i finally tell her I used to talk to dudes way back when. The look on her face….classic. So she continues NOW to clarify her comments but I was already thru. So Im like, yeah yeah woo woo Im bout to bounce…shes gets irrate cuz she thinks (which was absolutely tru) that I wasnt feelin her for her comments and shes steady tryna explain herself and Im blazed outta my mind so I just ignored her cuz i dont want her to blow me….Do u know this crankn ass donut threw her cup of ice at me while I was walking outta her house??? & u know what I did right? laugh like shit cuz i was so fuckin hi i couldnt possibly care less…lmfao now just thinking about that….dumb ass.
so anyhoo, thats not the worst part. the worst part is i run into the joint lata that month and she wit 1 of my friends. so i walk up to my friend and give her a hug and just look at the girl and laugh at her again right…of course that pisses her off and shes tries to go on me. Well im not lifted this time and we get to arguing…one thing led to another and voila. she got her ass beat on MLK ave in the middle of rush hour. Talk about ur wrong choices…..
Worst date.. I went on a blind date about 2 years ago.. I meet the girl at a public place she was sitting in her car smoking a black. I parked my car and we got out of our cars. She had a rack of clothes in the car and other objects I asked her was she moving.. she told me know..actually.. she was just told to leave where she was staying ” A friends house ” .. I left the topic alone and just decided to have a good meal.. she asked me for some money to buy her some more blacks. At the time I smoked so it was cool.. but after we finished our meal she started to “freak” the black ( take out the paper of the black and mild and but the tabacco back in so it pulls better ) in her plate. I was still eating mind you.. She was gross chick to say the least with no class what so ever. It was sad.. Of course after that I never talked to her again.. but about 8 months later she rung me up trying to rekindle what never started.. of course the answer was Hell to the Gnaw!
Since when is dating men more offensive to lesbian women than calling them broads or ugly cows? That’s just ignorant.
Get out your feelings sweetness “…It’s what YOU answer to that matters”
…Anyway
On another note… me and my homie left this square ass club with two uppity females and headed to the Dirty for a REAL party. The four of us started a conversation about how females behaved in the car. I stated that the “type of girls” that complained about doms were the main ones that disrespected their relationships and themselves…..the ones that flirted, accepted compliments and were always smiling up in somebody’s face. Of course the two females tried to justify their behavior as harmless.
Then my homie prefaced her next point by referring to females as “cunts” and all hell broke loose! I held my laughter, while the female in the passenger seat looked at me like she wanted me to defend her since her girlfriend was around to do it for her. Apparently her submissive intellectualism prohibited her from self defense so she just kirked out! She called us names and everything while we laughed her out.
I stopped at the 7-Eleven to cut the tension and told her to get past/over herself reminding her that if the word offended her, then deep down inside, she just might be a cunt. She got even more pissed and eventually, she was too good to go to the Dirty, and too smart for the discussion. Needless to say, we dropped her ass off and took her friend to the Dirty with us and partied all night long!
We had a blast, but the broad didn’t because Bucketheads Rarely Overstand And Do Suck much worst than bad dates!
Unfortunately suckers play big, but can’t “light fire to ass” even if they had a dick as hot as mine.
One of the greatest gifts of being American is the first amendment. It allows you to concentrate on the thread instead of dictating and trying to make the world politicaly correct. Why, people don’t even have to read offensive literature if they don’t want to. “Utilize” your rights and keep it civilized.
Why are you explaining yourself? Nobody cares about your straight self but you
Wow. All this over one little blog comment. It’s getting kind of ridiculous now, don’t you think? And when I did reply the first time to the judgements I was keeping it calm. So, now I’ll address like this. Whoever had a problem with my comment, don’t read the shit. It’s such a BIG deal for you to read anything having to do with a man, so what. Stop being a man hater. Or stop being envious of the fact that he got a dick and you don’t. Or stop being ashamed of some shit you used to do. You know, It fucking amazes me that we exist in a community where we’re supposed to be accepting of others and all that and I have never seen more hate, more separtism, more division than in this community. How girls have yall fucked that used to be with guys? If your asses say none you’re a lying bitch! Point blank. I mean, damn. We hate on each other for so much. We hate on each other for dating outside the race, for not being Dom enough, for not being Femme enough, for not wearing the right clothes and undergarments when you’re supposed to be Dom or Femme. And don’t even let me get on how much we hate on the Bi-sexuals. They need to damn near create their own community devoid of lesbians cuz most of us shun them away. It’s so fucking ridiculous.
I think all of yall need to come to my church, for some healing. We’re Unitarians, we’re spiritual, we love the earth and each other and all that hatin’ that’s in your heart will definitely be released.
Namaste bitches!
I’m with you on that. I reading all these comments and WOW. Let people be people, everyone has a past. That’s what makes us who we are today.
I am pasting RAI’s message here again because it is worth ready twice. So true. The lesbian community is so crazy. That’s the reason most good lesbians stay home and not socialize with most of you immature, ignorant **(&^%$(). Who ever you are RAI, well said and power to you girl!
“Wow. All this over one little blog comment. It’s getting kind of ridiculous now, don’t you think? And when I did reply the first time to the judgements I was keeping it calm. So, now I’ll address like this. Whoever had a problem with my comment, don’t read the shit. It’s such a BIG deal for you to read anything having to do with a man, so what. Stop being a man hater. Or stop being envious of the fact that he got a dick and you don’t. Or stop being ashamed of some shit you used to do. You know, It fucking amazes me that we exist in a community where we’re supposed to be accepting of others and all that and I have never seen more hate, more separtism, more division than in this community. How girls have yall fucked that used to be with guys? If your asses say none you’re a lying bitch! Point blank. I mean, damn. We hate on each other for so much. We hate on each other for dating outside the race, for not being Dom enough, for not being Femme enough, for not wearing the right clothes and undergarments when you’re supposed to be Dom or Femme. And don’t even let me get on how much we hate on the Bi-sexuals. They need to damn near create their own community devoid of lesbians cuz most of us shun them away. It’s so fucking ridiculous.”
Ladies, Jay and I started this blog so that we could allow ALL 2 voice their opinion and create a dialogue on personal and political topics. On MY BLOCK, everyone is welcome so then it becomes OUR BLOCK. There is a great deal of separatism and it is my hope that we can begin 2 bridge the gaps that exist. Everyone is not going 2 agree on everything and even with our diversity there is still some commonality: we r women that love women. It doesn’t matter whether u have dated a thousand men or none. It doesn’t matter if u label yourself bi-sexual, gay or straight. My only request is that we all use this blog 2 express our opinions in a respectful manner. How can we claim 2 be women that love women yet not be accepting and disrespectful of women becuz we choose different paths and have differing opinions?
Now back 2 the question 4 the week: As I type this, I can’t stop laughing just thinking about the nite. I had tickets 2 a Meshell N’degeocello concert and at the last minute, my date had 2 cancel—I should of known then, it was going 2 be a bad nite. So I call around and leave messages on a few phones with the idea that whoever calls back 1st will be PLAN B. So one of the ladies calls me back and we agree 2 meet a the show becuz she is going 2 be a little late getting off work. Well needless 2 say the show was the SHIT!!!! Meshell never disappoints—her music gets me high!! After the show, we go and have some drinks and the conversation turns 2 sex as it always does with this particular person (buddies with benefits would best describe our relationship). So she suggests that we go back 2 her place becuz she lives close by and of course I can’t say no becuz that would be rude. So b4 we go n2 her place, she tells me 2 be very quiet becuz her roommate is probably sleeping-now this is the 1st time I’m hearing about this roommate—but it’s no biggie right? WRONG!! We go n2 her bedroom and things get heated quickly and we r going 4 what we know—shit was going lovely if u know what I mean (this sounds like a really good date right? WRONG!! Next thing I know I hear this loud azz noise like someone just broke the door down—well they did—WHAT THE FUCK?!!!! Shorty’s “roommate” comes crashing thru the door yelling and going off. Why she tripping? Cuz she and shorty r recently broken up and she is allowing shorty 2 stay while she looks 4 a place. UNFUCKINGBELEIVABLE!! Maybe she should have mentioned that b4! So we both in the bed azz naked and this girl is like u know the rules—no company is allowed and then I look at shorty and she gives me this wink and a smile—r u kidding me? The crazy thing is I’m calm—2 much Meshell and drinks! Well the girl is talking about we lucky she gotta keep her security clearance cuz otherwise she would have came in with her gun—I love pussy but I ain’t trying 2 die 4 it—then she asking me which one am I—starts naming all these other women and I’m not any of them(shorty gotta a lot of buddies as it turns out) so I do the proper thing and introduce myself (I mean she done seen my azz so I might as well tell her my name)—I even extend my hand and of course she looking like what the fuck? But she shakes my hand (LMFAO as I’m typing)!! Then we proceed 2 have a conversation about the fact that I was completely unaware of the situation—all this while I’m still naked but then I start getting dressed becuz I can’t stay. Shorty laying in the bed chilling like she watching lifetime on Sundays and shit. I’m like this is some bullshit—I’m pissed cuz now I gotta go home and finish the job by myself cuz my hormones r at peak and I’m buzzed and it’s like 40 miles 2 get home. Here’s the kicker—I ask shorty y she would put me in this situation and she shrugs and is like Shit, I was horny—well she still is and she gonna spend the nite getting cursed out. I leave and as luck would have it, I fall asleep at the wheel and almost crash my vehicle n2 a damn concrete barrier—. Needless 2 say, me and shorty never hooked up again but I still speak when I c her and we share this little grin that says it all—no need 2 be mad with her cuz I guess when u horny, u gotta get yours the best way u can- LOL!!
Praise HIM! Let’s join the hypocrites in church why don’t we. Surely one can find wonderful dates with santicfied, superheads that curse out the same filthy mouth they pray with. The types that never know when to shut up, which reminds me of another horrible date.
I went out with this “girl” that wouldn’t shut up for nothing! She just kept talking all night about a bunch of bull. Of course I played devil’s advocate to see what she was about. I outright laughed in her face a couple of times. Gave her the ill face, sucked my teeth and sighed while she talked.
The more I discounted her opinions and called her on her shit, the more heated she became. It got to the point that she was acting exactly like “those people” that she criticized. She kept trying to make me agree with her stupidity. She talked and talked and kept talking even when I stopped giving her feedback. I thought this has to be the dumbest broad ever. How lame. I tired of that game.
She got all high and mighty, and clucked about me being disrespectful, yet she was the one calling names. Right before I got the clucker home, she called her friend on her cell and started talking about me in third person. I broke her down until all she could say was “Shut up!” I was like F-YOU! And I got something you and your friend can stuff in your trap. :-O
YIKES.. I THOUGHT THIS WAS ABOUT A BAD DATE.. HOW DID IT CHANGE INTO A BLOG ABOUT STR8 PEOPLE, DUDES, AND DOMMS.. LOL GEEEEEEEEEZZZ
wow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! man i’m sitting here at work reading all of this stuff while doing work and i’m just shaking my head. i can’t believe people, why do we have to be cruel to one another. i know we have people who really dont care if they say things out of the mouth and pissed them off. i agree with sha this is a blog where people can say what ever is on their minds but can we be respectful in doing so? a lot of the bad dates was good and sha i loved yours girl lol!!!!!!!! but if she was that horny she still could’ve said something to u and u all could’ve either went to a hotel or your place that to me seems like she was trying to piss her ex off by doing that. when u asked her about it and all she can do it shrug her shoulders and smile oh that was on purpose. girl, at least u lived though it.
on another note CAN WE ALL JUST GET ALONG????? 
HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!!!
My worst date was a year ago. First date, she had no money. We were going through an ordinary police check, and the chick didn’t have a driver’s license. It was suspended, and I had to drive her raggedy Lexus that was registered in her ex’s name. Then she had the nerve to call me the next day to go to the movies!!!! What a waste of time!!
Wise n Noble People are led far by Women’s GENTLE WORDS!!!
(Think about it)
One cannot be too careful in the choice of your WORDS!!!
(what is your meaning of BROAD, and it’s origin)
A little sincerity is a dangerous thing, and a great deal of it is absolutely neccesary.
(wouldn’t it be just as easy to tell a SISTER that you are not feeling the moment and reschedule and think about the effect you could have by being truly honest without being rude?)
Women are like pictures of no value in the hands of a FOOL!!!
(Treat the SISTERS with respect especialy if you choose to go on a Date/Blind-Dates,,,
The wise learn many things from their foes.
(Sistas!! and we are all Sistas regadless of the title you choose to call your self these days,,, some of the WORDS that we use to discribe others that you may have issuse with sounds like our Disrepectful Brothers that have a hatred for women,,,WASUP WITH THAT?)
Words once spoken can never be recall’d!!!
(Remember When?)
A Predjudice is a vagrant opinion without visible means of support!!!
(Remember When?)
To be Predjudice is always to be weak!!!
(Remember When?)
BE ENCOURAGING ALWAYS
Much Luv n Respect
it was a blind date and i was not attracted to the person at all but did not mind being friends. that was about 7 years ago and they are still trying for something that is not going to happen at all. it is hampering our friendship.
First: As a writer, language is my ammo, and it’s purpose is to inspire dialogue and thinking outside of what has been taught/brainwashed. I see a trend of BLACK lesbians (transplants) assimilating, and disassociating from what’s real, and I will always be that cultural reality check in DC…I will stick both feet into anything BLACK lesbian related in my city, and make sure that is authentic, and represented thoroughly to either extreme…feel me…moving right along
Second: Is this a lesbian blog or not? I had heard that it wasn’t, yet it seems to be a bunch of broads in here:-) If it is, there are a million and one topics concerning OUR community, and we need to express ourselves freely. If you don’t like what I said: either check it intellectually, or ignore it and stop acting needy (just playing see). On the other hand, If this is not a lesbian blog then I will gladly move on, and let ya’ll be.
Third - To recap:
BROAD = bitches, whores, lying sluts; those catty, hypocritical, insecure, judgemental, kill joy, lame minded, neurotic, overanalytically queer to the point of stupidity types that spark such definitions.
Fourth: Respect is learned and self respect is also key. Though I fit into various categories, I refuse to be defined by any. Respond to your name, instead of honey, baby, broad, boo, or any other term that can be deemed derogatory. And if the word BROAD still upsets you, or you feel the need to censor the multifaceted BLACK lesbian community, then please feel free to revisit my previous responses for clarity.
Finally, If any further explanation is needed about this broad thing, please feel free to send an email because I find it quite boring, sad, and embarrassing that the most stimulation on this so called lesbian blog has come from a word that rhymes with it: BROAD, yet I can’t say that one response even scratched the surface of interesting; Most just validate the definition (trademark of neledi tafari…just kidding)
The previous 5 points by ME were brought to you by Dykin, a novel by Neledi Tafari coming this Spring.
(*yawn*) u no u luv me!
MY WORST DATE OCCURRED WITH A WOMAN WHO SAID SHE SHE ONY DATES WOMEN WHO LOOK LIKE BET VIDEO GIRLS YET SHE WAS 250LB DESPITE HAVING GASTRIC BYPASS SURGERY AND DEPERATELY NEEDED TO SEE A DENTIST —SHE HAD A GAP IN HER TEETH AS WIDE AS THE STATE OF TEXAS.
DC HAS THE MOST HATEFUL BLACK LESBIANS IN THE WORLD …WHY ARE DC DYKES SOOOO SELF HATING, NASTY AS HELL AND POOR ASS DYKES…I FEEL SORRY FOR 99% OF THE LESBIAN WOMEN RESIDING IN THE DC AREA.
Stop faking. Where you from? You know you love us (DC doms), and we are so full of ourselves! You should shed a little love on yourself and stop being so shallow. And take tha f-ing caps lock off.
My worst date was reading all these hateful words…
Man when I sign on, visit or participate in anything involving black, PR or white lesbian women, I’m on a date.. I love you guys..
We have an opportunity here to voice some funny and interest moments in our lives… common on topics that we don’t address as a community every day, due to schedules and such. Yet all we can get from it is how someone addresses a gender or who we choose when sharing our past experiences (male or female)…
Come on ladies.. DC women NY, MD, VA, CA, ATL, LA and any other place you can think of, is from every where… we have some of every place in use, and we choose to be who we are… and right here right now…
I like woman… dames, broads, chicks, ma’s, and dem all.. smile…
Let’s have fun.. think fun when you come here.. and you will laugh at freedoms of speeches…
Aright hoe’s???? hahahhahah