Is kissing cheating?

Is kissing someone else cheating?

Comments

  1. kc
    January 12th, 2007 | 10:23 am

    you some people may not think that kissing is cheating, but to me its is. when u are in a relationship with someone u are not suppose to do nor share things with someone else other than your partner. cheating is cheating to me and i feel kissing is very intimate and when u start the kissing it will lead to other things. kissing can be part of four play. again this what i think and feel. now, u know when u start kissing it really feels good especially if u are a good one and then u start from the lips down to the neck(ooooh) and the list can go on and on and u are not doing this with your partner? YES!! thats cheating….:)

  2. January 12th, 2007 | 11:46 am

    I do agree with KC 100%. Kissing is cheating when you are in a relationship. One thing can lead to another and then what. I say keep your hands and mouth to yourself. If you feel like you going to cheat or have to cheat then stay single. Kissing is a very intimate actions that is shared between two individuals (hopefully in a realtionship).

  3. carolyn
    January 12th, 2007 | 12:16 pm

    yes! Kissing is cheating. Why would anyone believe otherwise? And Yes! It leaves to other sexual endeavors…

  4. taz
    January 12th, 2007 | 12:55 pm

    Yes, Kissing is definitely cheating. Although kissing can be viewed as a simple sign of endearment, it’s also a shared action of intimacy. There is no grey area when it comes to cheating; it’s either black or white. However, on the other hand it’s all in the eye of the beholder; if there is a mutual understanding between both parties in the relationship nothing else matters.

  5. DC
    January 12th, 2007 | 6:01 pm

    I think any kind of intimate contact outside of your relationship is cheating. Kissing, touching etc. So I definitely agree with these ladies. Cheating with your wife was worth it though Jay.

  6. Manuela
    January 14th, 2007 | 12:37 pm

    kissing is cheating as it can lead to much more than that. I just started seeing this girl when i kissed another one. We weren’t committed or anything, hell we hadn’t even had sex yet. But as soon as i kissed the other girl i felt guilty. I could see the hurt in my girl’s eyes though she said it was cool when i told her. I was lucky to have someone who is very understanding but yeah a kiss outside a relationship is cheating.

  7. MsMoon
    January 14th, 2007 | 2:17 pm

    Ok.. so if kissing is intimacy then what about other kinds of intimacy of the not physical kind? How about the person outside of your relationship who just knows your mind so well that they can complete your thoughts? Is that *mental* cheating? What about the person who is intuned with an emotional experience that you have had but your partner hasn’t? Is that form of intimacy cheating too?

    I think overall folks are stuck on the wrong thing. I would MUCH rather my partner go and KISS another person than for her to not come to ME FIRST when something is bothering her.

  8. Crissy
    January 14th, 2007 | 9:35 pm

    MsMoon I 2 would prefer 4 my partner to come 2 me 1st, but I don’t believe that “mental cheating” is a form of intimacy unless that person gets u wett… ;) With that said, many of us have “friends” that we mentally connect with on certain levels that we don’t with our partners and that 2 me is understandable…there is no such thing as a perfect relationship. (Not saying that u insinuated that MsMoon, just stating my point :) )

  9. Miszi
    January 15th, 2007 | 9:42 am

    Well, ladies. I have a problem. I agree with all of you that kissing is a form of cheating. BUT what if you have kissed someone and it was NOT warranted by you. How do you go back and tell your partner? I was in a conversation with someone whom I thought to be a friend and a friend only. While watching the L word last night, she went on to tell me her feelings for me. She knows that I am involved but my relationship latley has been on a shaky leg. So she dives in and tells me her feelings and that she would not be as stand “offish” as my partner. She goes on to seal her statement with a kiss. I saw her coming in but I did not believe she would cross the line. NOW, should I tell my girl about it or let it go unsaid? Oh yeah…I did kiss back…

  10. MG
    January 16th, 2007 | 11:35 am

    I agree with all the above comments that kissing is indeed cheating. But i must say…..even though it is cheating….i like concenting my wife to do it because it is f#*king hott. So baby when you see jay’s wife again….go up to her and cheat ok…lol

  11. LA
    January 17th, 2007 | 7:11 pm

    Anything that you would not want your girl out there doing is cheating. For some reason Doms have such a hard time with this. I guess b.c. they can “seperate” the wife from the fix. I think many doms get scared of femmes cheating b.c. femmes don’t know how to keep their emotions at home. So if a femme cheats, she’s leaving. Most importantly anything you know that would hurt your woman if she found out is cheating. Knowing that and intentionally doing it anyway is cheating. Some women (us femmes cheat too!) say it’s only cheating if you get caught. When you have that high level of intimacy that often comes with a relationship women just know…. and I suppose that leads to snooping.
    At the end of the day we are all lesbians! When has kissing someone you are really attracted to not led to something else? Holla

  12. PLK
    January 19th, 2007 | 8:22 am

    Ladies everyone is entitled to their opinion, but you should never do something that you would not want done to you! Now whether you consider that cheating or not is based upon whether you have a conscious and whether you have ever been in that situation and been hurt by or hurt someone you were in a relationship. People cheat for a number of reasons none of which can be justified. Whether you are married or just technically committed, you should always respect both your partner and their feelings, because the next time it could be you!

  13. January 19th, 2007 | 2:02 pm

    I know I replied earlier to this question. But I do agree with PLK…it can happen to you. Karma is a mother*@#*&….

  14. kc
    January 23rd, 2007 | 12:19 pm

    wow! i know i started it off but i have to respond to some. plk i agree what u are saying b.c. what goes around comes around. i understand what everyone is saying but u should never put yourself in that situation if you want to stay true to your partner. now as for miszi, you kissed the person back and at the moment i’m sure u enjoyed it. if you keep this from your girl then u opened up something else called lying to your partner. now i’m not saying it would be easy to tell her but if u dont’ and what if she founds out then she will think you are keepin it from her for a reason. see that’s how people get in trouble because they always use that they are having problems in their relationships and they feel its ok for them to cheat or do what ever because things are rocky. if its that bad get out of the siutaion before u do something u will regret. ok, say things are rocky now and then things get better what u did still didn’t go anywhere then what would u do and say?

  15. Sha
    January 23rd, 2007 | 3:19 pm

    only if the tongue comes n2 play

  16. Cee
    January 25th, 2007 | 9:44 am

    That depends on the type of kiss. tongue in the mouth. cheating. kiss on the cheek. not cheating. it also depends on the relationship btwn you and yours but then that applies to everything doesn’t it? oh and Miszi…don’t tell your girl but u know u wrong.

  17. January 26th, 2007 | 4:08 pm

    Of course it is.. :-) !

  18. Juicy
    January 26th, 2007 | 4:19 pm

    Well has anyone seen that new flyer for first friday on jamorr site? They both look familar. Aren’t they taken off the market? Now is that considered cheating? I think it is hot. Anyone….Anyone….Jay where you at?

  19. kc
    January 30th, 2007 | 4:54 pm

    Cee i agree with you i didn’t look at it that away cause there are different types of kissing. :)

  20. Jay
    January 31st, 2007 | 4:31 pm

    Ok, I am here. I like the pic, I was there. I didn’t feel it was cheating. It was rather hot. LOL

  21. plznt
    February 7th, 2007 | 3:49 pm

    Kissing is cheating if the parties in a relationship have agreed what is okay and not okay in THEIR relationship.

  22. sagesoul
    February 8th, 2007 | 8:36 pm

    There’s several ways to kiss a person.. in what way are you referring to??? :)

  23. February 9th, 2007 | 9:23 am

    is lying ok

  24. ROBIN
    February 11th, 2007 | 3:12 pm

    I PERSONALLY DON’T SEE ANYTHING WRONG WITH A DOMINANT WOMAN ALLOWING HER SIGNIFICANT OTHER TO USE A STRAP.MY WOMAN IS VERY DOMINANT BUT I DON’T CONSIDER HER A DOM,I CONSIDER HER VERSATILE.ME,MYSELF I’M VERY FEMINANT BUT SOMETIMES I LIKE TO BE ON THE OTHER END OF THE STRAP. I LOVE TO MAKE MY LADY FEEL LIKE SHE MAKES ME FEEL,AND IT TAKES NOTHING AWAY FROM WHO SHE IS.!

  25. February 14th, 2007 | 11:00 pm

    huh? ahhh! hello!?
    YES!

  26. robyn
    February 23rd, 2007 | 8:52 am

    YEP!!!

  27. Yinka
    February 27th, 2007 | 1:16 pm

    kissing to me is not a form of cheating…

  28. Lady
    March 2nd, 2007 | 7:49 am

    YES! Kissing is definitely cheating. Kissing is an intimate act that should be shared with your partner. As everyone knows kissing can lead to much more which can be detrimental to your relationship when share with someone other than your partner. Always put yourself in your partners place… If it were something you would not like them to do to you, then why would you think it would be ok if you did it….

  29. March 11th, 2007 | 12:13 am

    yes..if you’re in a commited relationship with someone

  30. April 5th, 2007 | 4:10 pm

    Ew. Kissing is sacred, moreso than sex. In the early stages of relationships, kissing is a no-non, among other things. You can’t go around putting your mouth on people…it’s disgusting. Rule of thumb: only kiss the woman that you love.

  31. B.
    October 17th, 2007 | 12:05 pm

    Kissing is cheating believe or not. If you are in a serious relationship when you kiss somebody else instantly you know that is wrong. You don’t kiss in explicit way unless you intend on taking that to the next level. Just put it like this you don’t want your partner kissing somebody else you shouldn’t do it either.

  32. CornyDot
    February 21st, 2008 | 12:26 pm

    I just had a conversation about this with my friends who have been together for 22 years. My buddy stated that kissing is not cheating although his partner disagreed. “A kiss in a club when I drunk is nothings”, he says. He defined cheating lying to his partner to spend time with someone else (plotting).

    I agree that it is disrespectful to do such a thing but I’m not for sure if I will live my partner for a kiss.

Leave a reply