Regrets?….
Do you ever regret any past relationships? Or do you wish you could get back with your ex?
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I don’t regret any past relationships I’ve been in. Only because each relationship has been a lesson learned. Have I ever wished to go back to any of my ex’s? No, because we broke up for a reason and why would I think that person will change? NEVER go back!!
Warning signs! Look for them up front before the uhaul decisions are made. If she is jealous, possesive, overly needy and codependent or prone to drama. RRRRUUUUNNNNN! Do not pass go. You can avoid having regrets with past relationships by identifying early enough the warning signs of impending lesbo disaster.
I regret being with someone that I knew was unhealthy for me. I knew that there would be no growth between us, but I was in a “bad place” and needed something to get my mind of things. It ended badly because eventually I got out of that “place” and no longer felt a need for her; while she had grown attached in the process.
No. I don’t.
I don’t regret any past relationships.
I have, however gone back to an ex before. (Strictly for physical reasons)Even though a situation in unhealthy it doesn’t mean you can’t have emotionless sex with a person.
I believe it is important to know how to separate the physical from the emotional. Does this mean I want to still be in a relationship with that person??? NO! A lot of people can’t differentiate.
Honestly, I have never regretted a relationship that I have been in. Have I regretted some of the things I did while in those relationships, OF COURSE! But each flirt, fling and forever love made me into who I am and I wouldn’t give that up for the world. Everyone enters your life for a reason, season or a lifetime and you have to be able to decipher which is which. When there time is up it is very likely that you will feel “some kinda way” but you reflect, not regret.
People are ex’s for a reason.. I have only went back to one ex.. and I think that was a good choice.. b/c all and all.. we are a good fit.
I agree with alot of the other comments. Each relationship/experience is a lesson learned. To go back would be doing just that…”going back”. As long as you can identify the issues and problems and attempt to not repeat them in the future, than leave them right where they were..in the past! X’s help to remind us of how far we’ve come and how far we seek to go…
I do not regret the past relaionships nor want to get back with them. What I do regret is the time spent on worthless no bodies, but just to piggy-back on what sadiqa and the others are saying it is an life experience. It prepares us to be strong and to be able to live life accordingly. I agree@buckets very much so…very much. Time and the world will be still moving eventhough you are at a stand still…so keep it moving and live for self if thats what it takes…
Peace
PS…New Beginnings
I have no regrets, things happen through divine intervention, which can be a true blessing. Every relationship whether it’s negative or positive shapes our lives in someway. So, with that said, move forward and be open to the possibilities of meeting your soul mate. I have and I thank God everyday for her-
i regret the last past experience; it was a waste of my time and time is precious. At this point in my life i have learned from my mistakes and wish to meet someone who feels the same way. Never hook up with someone that is in a different place than you are, i.e. if they have kids and animals and you don’t have those responsibilities it can cause problems. Try to be equally yoked. People with pets and children always have to go home and do feedings and so on.
regrets naw, that’s a lesson learned. its a part of life learnings and with my ex i thank her because she made me open my eyes to alot of things and learn how to say no!
never regret…or I try not to. there is meaning behind everything. look for that, it’s always there just thinking back in retrospect and it never fails that I began to understand why I had the experiences that I have had. rest assured those light bulb moments will come right in the middle of something else that is happening in your life that is meaningful.
I normally don’t think about my past relationships because when its over…its over. But I ran into an ex of mine and I must say she was looking good. (It may have been the drink that I had.lol) But anyway we spoke for a minute and I was pleased to see if she had finally taken some of my advice. When I was I with her she would not change for anything in the world. The encounter at the Coconuts made me think what if she had gotten herself together when we were together. I don’t regret but I did have a major flashback and what if moment.
NOPE… See her under the hoop going to get the rebound… I grab the ball, bounds behind the back… I’m gone back up the court for a brighter day… Swish… three points this time…. PEACE…
Regrets, no. But hindsight is 20/20. I could kick myself in the ass over a couple, but they were my life’s experiences. And as long as you learn from them, it’s ok. Because if not, your doomed to repeat them.
Regrets, yes… I regret the time spent trying to make something dysfunctional, rational. I regret, the time lost and fights fought. I regret, the tears shed and emotions bled. But I rejoice, because each regret bought me closer to what I needed to get…
Well said Lisa and Dakota.
Regret….that’s a hard one. If I knew then what I know now, I would have known better than to enter into them. Then again, I wouldn’t know what I know if it were not for my past relationships. I broke my own rule once (it really is hard to erase the past from people’s mind) and swore I wouldn’t do it again…but there is this one womon…