Have you…

Have you or would you participate in a threesome with your partner?

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  1. Cee
    March 9th, 2007 | 8:44 am

    No…I have never participated in a threesome with my baby. But if she is willing…so am I. (and I think she is) I figure if the two of you agree…no problem.

    This is not for everybody…not even those that think they can handle it.. You must have a VERY strong foundation and good communication. You can not think this will work….you MUST KNOW that it will work and not interfere with the two of you. This is about the two of you FIRST…everything else is secondary.

  2. Lady Law
    March 9th, 2007 | 9:59 am

    I’m not sure, I guess I would if the time was right and all parties involved were down. My girl has a few experience with threesomes and foursomes and I know alot of people who have endulged, but I have never actually participated in one myself. I’m move of the type of person that is only sexually interested in my partner when I get into a relationship, so I think that my biggest hurdle would be finding someone, other than my girlfriend, that I’m sexually attracted to. Plus, I view my girlfriend’s sexuality as something special for me and me alone, and I’m sure that she views mine in the same way, so I don’t want anyone to partake of my special treasure. Maybe I’m selfish, but I don’t like to share, at least not my girlfriend.

  3. March 9th, 2007 | 12:28 pm

    Yeah…years ago with with a skank .. not my partner.. lol :-)

  4. March 9th, 2007 | 12:29 pm

    Yeah…years ago with a skank .. not my partner.. lol :-)

  5. March 11th, 2007 | 12:19 am

    I planned it once…but couldn’t go through with it.

    I am a one woman woman and even though it was a planned consentual event, I couldn’t stand the thought of my partner with someone else.

  6. March 11th, 2007 | 8:58 pm

    I’ve been waiting 4 this question/topic 2 come up. Yeah I have had the pleasure of experiencing this twice (not with a partner but while being single) and I must say that both were life alterating adventures. I believe that everyone should experience this b4 settling down but ONLY if u are mature enough to handle it.

  7. March 12th, 2007 | 9:16 am

    I’ve participated in a threesome on two separate occasions. It happened once with a couple, and the other one involving my ex girlfriend, and an outsider.

    To me personally, they’re overrated. The first threesome ended with tension because one of the women who were coupled that invited me in their bedroom got upset at the reaction that her girlfriend displayed while I was performing on her. After seeing her girlfriend’s reaction, and hearing her moans, and screams of passion, that upset her, and she ended up leaving the room. Threesome over!! lol Did I enjoy it?? It was okay!! I tried not to get too intimate, being sensitive to the fact that this was a couple that I was involved with, but in the heat of passion, and with me doing what I do best ole girl ended up getting in her feelings. My bad!! Probably never made her girl scream like I did. That’s the risk involved, someone just might be a little more skilled in that area than you are.

    The second threesome at the last minute ended up being the experience that “saved” my relationship at the time for a few more months. I don’t care what anyone says; the thought of someone else with their hands all over what’s “yours” can do either two things; it can make you realize that the thought of them being with someone else sickens you, thus making you appreciate what’s yours, or if unaffected it can be a realization that maybe the relationship is at it’s demise. I’ve also been told that some people get off on watching their mate with another woman, not me.

    I pretended like I was okay with it, but seeing how much it turned my ex girlfriend on at the time made me clutch her tighter. I didn’t want to share!! Nor could I fathom the thought of her being intimate with another woman.

    So the million dollar question is will I do it again????….
    I don’t know, I can’t answer that question until I’m in that position again, maybe I just didn’t have the right threesome lol

  8. STONE
    March 16th, 2007 | 2:36 pm

    Ahhh, great question. I enjoy watching my partner being pleasured by another and I have had a few of them in my days. In my experience they can go either way. If all are open, honest, and in touch with their feelings then it can be a great experience-if not things can go drastically wrong. I’ve had a threesome with another couple, I’ve invited someone in my bedroom, and I’ve also had a threesome with two WoMen who were not attached. A few things that I’ve learned:

    1. Don’t invite the WoMan in that you know your WoMan may have a thing for…if she is diggin’ the other WoMen it may be a disaster

    2. Always discuss expectations and/or bounderies before hand (e.g., is it okay for a sexual relationship to continue outside of the agreed upon encounter)

    3. Don’t do it if you and/or you partner have a habit of being possessive and/or jealous

    Will I ever have another, can’t say but what I can say is that I will be most prepared if I do.

  9. Christina
    March 17th, 2007 | 9:06 am

    I have been involved in several, but most were in party settings when I was single. A few experiences were while with someone, tho, and I have to say that I agree about the jealousy thing. If you take your girl with you, you better be ‘on your game’ at home or you may get a surprise. I think it’s just the freaky side of me that always keeps me interested, but it definitely depends on who I’m with. If you’ve never just watched two other women get it on in person - with the possibilty of joining — you should try it. Sometimes watching is just as exciting as participating. My girl now is definitely not the type to participate or even let anyone watch, so as it stands now, my 3 or more days are over.

  10. Lady
    March 23rd, 2007 | 8:18 am

    No, I have never participated in a threesome and have no intention of doing so… I am a one woman woman and cannot share my partner and have no desire to see my partner with someone else or have someone else touch my partner. I know I could not handle it so I won’t even fool myself in thinking I would be ok with it. So no threesomes are not for me.

  11. re_evolve
    March 29th, 2007 | 3:49 pm

    I don’t think I could with my partner, I do not share well. But if I’m single I would try it. My friends who have told me its not a big deal, but I think I’ll still see for myself.

  12. April 4th, 2007 | 11:04 am

    I want to try a 3some but my woman who is a stud absolutely refuses. She says that she doesn’t want to share me with anybody. I have even offered to allow her to be with another women in my presence thinking it may lead to a threesome and she’s not willing to try that either. I guess no 3somes for me anytime soon anyway…LOL!

  13. queensheba413
    June 22nd, 2007 | 11:18 pm

    Let’s make this as brief as possible. I was asked to do a threesome (wit a stranger)as if. My partner(no longer wit) tried to amp it up, but I am a selfish person and she was open to newer things( but done plenty of times). I say again I would not participate nor watch.

  14. Paralegalluv
    October 10th, 2007 | 2:31 pm

    I have in the past, not with my partner at that time, I was single and damn near became a fatal attraction with this particular girl. : ) The experience is one i’ll never forget but, would not participate in again.

  15. miss zay
    December 18th, 2007 | 1:53 am

    NO!NO! i’m sorry i had my share of threesome’s when i was single and can start some stuff with having a partner into the act, thats all i’m going to say about that

  16. JAck
    January 11th, 2008 | 7:03 am

    Not no but HECK no!!! Fantisize (sp) most definitely, but actually do it…never!

  17. Shannon
    March 8th, 2008 | 11:05 am

    well i had participated in a 3 way with my fiance once i was 16 at the time and we had known the girl and i thought w the heck but once it started, seeing him with another girl infront of me destroyed me on the inside, and afterwards he knew that it wasnt something that i could do again, and we agreed it wasnt for us. But lately he said that he was wrong about what he thought, and he thinks it only hurt cause we knew her, and i told him that it wouldnt make a difference. And he thinks that because im Bi that it shouldnt be something that i should deny, but i told him that i just dont want to do it, and he got kinda mad cause he really doesnt believe in my beliefs about it, and just last night we were having sex and it was really good, keeping in mind we had a huge blow out about 3somes the day before over the phone, and he had the NERVE to say we should expand this, and i didnt know what he ment at first and he said with another female, i got so mad i told him to get off me and he was like i was joking and i was like no you werent dont lie to me, and i asked him why he cant just be happy with me, and he said he was, but i sauid obviously not happy enough. so yea idk what to do..

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