Can you ever…..

Can you ever truly say goodbye to the person you love?

April 20th 2007 Filed into Your Block

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  1. Sirius
    April 20th, 2007 | 7:50 am

    In the literal sense, of course. You may not speak to the person ever again but figuratively I honestly don’t think that you can. I believe a piece of your heart will always be with them whether you ended the relationship on good or bad terms.

  2. Randi
    April 20th, 2007 | 9:02 am

    I believe you can do both. Life is an ongoing story - it depends on how you choose to tell yours to yourself. If you truly feel a chapter is over, you have the power to close it. It just depends on how strong you are to close that door and still be able to open it to others.

  3. KUUMO77
    April 20th, 2007 | 9:10 am

    If you really loved that person — NO .. you can’t say good-bye to them. You may go away for awhile, but as long as you come back.. that is the test of a “true -real -Love”.. If you can walk away forever someone you claimed to have loved.. you never LOVED THEM.. Sein..

  4. Melodysongbird
    April 23rd, 2007 | 2:21 pm

    No. If you truley loved the person your heart will never let go of them.

  5. Renee
    April 23rd, 2007 | 4:15 pm

    When you love someone, you love them, period! As for the relationship ending; of course one has the ability to move forward in life. Love, however, is solid and does not depend on a physical togetherness. Love is, and once you choose to love, there is no undoing what’s real. Love and Light to All…

  6. Femme Fatale
    April 24th, 2007 | 11:57 am

    You can never say goodbye to the person that you love. Whether you never speak to them again or have Sunday dinner at thier Mama’s house they will always be in your life. Yes you may not dial their number but when you walk past the restaurant you regularly visited you will think of her and what you had. And in some instances those feelings (whether good or bad) will rush over you like Chicago wind. When you say goodbye to something you are completely letting it go. You just can not do that with true love.

  7. Neledi Tafari
    April 24th, 2007 | 3:54 pm

    When it’s over it’s over. Holding on to the past will keep you stuck in that position. Stop thinking that you can be friends because you’re lying. At some point you must grow up, face the music and move on. That means, no more phone calls, no random emails to “check in,” and if I see you on the street, I might blink, but there’s really nothing left to say.

  8. Kida
    April 24th, 2007 | 11:44 pm

    No, you can’t. Even after the lust is gone you still got love for them. More than likey you’ve gone through shit together and have open up your heart to them, for that point on your have acceptted them into your family and to say goodbye is like saying goodbye to you sister or brother. You kinda treat them like family you aren’t close with once it’s over, short chat, short hug, and on your way. Still got love just not in love.

  9. KC
    April 26th, 2007 | 9:41 am

    Man, you all are real deep with this one and there’s nothing i can say on this but i agree with every last one of u. When it comes to true love u will always love them doesn’t mean u are still inlove with them, and u also can move on to a new chapter. Ive been there. :)

  10. DEEP
    April 27th, 2007 | 3:57 pm

    Why it soooo important to keep our old lovers secret and close to our hearts when IT IS OVER! I say move her out of the way and get over it. IT IS OVER! I am so tired of women holding on to failed relationships, IT IS OVER! How can anyone move on when they continue to drag old thoughts of old lovers. MAKE ROOM FOR SOMEONE ELSE, IT IS OVER!!!!! STOP FOOLING YOURSELF AND GO OUT AND SURROUND YOURSELF AROUND PEOPLE AT ONE OF JAMORR’S EVENTS!

  11. robyn
    May 3rd, 2007 | 9:15 am

    I hear what’s being said, and I guess I could agree no some notes… and maybe it’s because I really don’t want to (agree).. because in my present relationship, I know she’s loved before… so that puts me in an uneasy way, wondering if she is like one replier said (thinking about her past relationship when she walk past that spot)i dont’ want to go there mentally…
    For me, I believe I have loved a woman once with all my heart, but I can say “I’m not inlove with her anymore” now do I think about the “what if’s” I respect her today, and I still admire some things about her, but love her.. No, not anymore… (I’m talking about the “In Love”, cause really.. I love every woman I’ve ever been with & some I haven’t… but only one had my heart in the past… And I don’t think about the love anymore when I see her. I see the friend now only…

  12. Meeche'
    July 14th, 2007 | 10:44 pm

    We all in some degree believe that being friends with those whom are now EX-LOVERS is very much possible. Bad terms that never has it day of RECONCILE will leave you always pushing you towards that very EX but good terms can also push you towards that very EX…So if saying good-bye is the better answer so why is it so difficult to be able to allow the seperation to be an Honest one for the better chance of friends. allow yourself and the other the oppurtunity to RECONCILE those issues that lead up to the separation My goodness surely it wasn’t those Fantastic Good one’s that lead to the EX-FACTOR now was it…

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