Would you date a pregnant….
Would you date a pregnant woman whose last relationship was with the baby’s father?
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NO, absolutely not! for those that would…i ask this question or make this suggestion…
1. Why not find yourself a womy w/ less involvement in the x?
2. What is it about you that makes you accept less?
3. What is the nature of the relationship b/w the womyn & her x-man? and if it is a positive and open-minded one that will not be intrusive upon your relationship actions will be louder than words — so be observant…
4. Are you menatlly, emotionally & financially able to endure a relationship w/ a womyn who has such needs?
Thats my take on it…
I would have to fall hard and fall fast for a girl to entertain a relationship like that. It sounds insane but I’m just a sucka like that. I would have to ask myself (or any of my friends if they were in the same situation) the hard questions that artisst mentioned.
I can see this happening only because people today are filled with such uninhibated territories in their sexuality it’s called “Free Spirit”. So if there is a man whom is a baby’s father just look around you it is such a normal thing to see or experience. It becomes not even not a choice of yours to have children sometime down the line Why it’s a very good chance that every other person you may meet already have a child or children. You can’t get around it appears it just what choices one makes whether it’s wise or not.
Not interested in a ready made family, OR in dating a bisexual woman who is actively involved with men.
NEVER in a million years. Firstly, you will most likely have to take on alot of financial responsibility for your girlfriend and her child. Secondly, the woman is most likely bi-sexual and will return to her baby’s father at some point in time to at least try to have a ‘normal’ family. Thirdly, that opens you up to a wealth of STDs or STIs that occur with dealing with women that have sex with men, namely herpes or HPV/Genital warts. They are easily transferable. In the words of Wendy Williams, “Put that where? Back there!”
I agree with you SC…but there are so many of these ready made families due to the experimental ohh I think I a lesbian type out there. But they’re are a great no# of strickly lesbians to live and love even to establish your own family and you don’t have to worry a baby’s MaMa going back with the Father to “quote” “unquote” have a normal family. I tell you my family has it’s problems without the issues of being Gay or Lesbian. Who’s family doesn’t wright?? *smile so my thought is What is NORMAL????? really.
Personally I would never date a pregnant woman in that situation or probably any other situation close to that. It’s already hard just getting to know most women to see if you want to get involved, then to add additional eractic emotions on top….You are asking for trouble. Never date a girl who states she just broke up with her baby daddy…
I could be friends.. but not date seriously no.. I would have had to known her prior for years or something. But to just meet someone new and with child… that would be too much.
Not no but Hell No! I don’t do men in any shape, form or fashion. I’m not going behind a man. I’ll be her friend (I don’t “play” with friends) but definitely nothing intimate would happen between us.
No way!!! She will have to be on her own. I could be a friend and thats it.
All women who walk around with child are not drama magnets… We just make them out to be… due to fear.
I didn’t have all this insight on how to move forward when I was presented with this blessing we are dialoguing about… (I LOVE CHILDREN) So to take an educated guess … I would have to say “I’d give it a shot again”…
I know first hand that daddy is usually (only) a problem when he thinks he has something you need… Then he uses it to badger…
I’ve date two women in the past that had children. (One with a 3 year old and the other with a 2 month) and I have to say… they were good mothers.. They had children because they wanted child. (no other reason)
They were prepare to raise the kids independently… So, asking me to witness up close and personal… Was a gift… I’m still in close contact with one of them… 11 years later…
I’m attracted to a certain type of woman… I’m not saying she’s exempt from all the potential drama. I’m saying she handles herself in a fashion that will (not make me) but have me wanting to be there for her child and self, just from the way she moves forward…
Any woman can cheat on you with a man if cheating is in her…
If you come across this situation… don’t react… stand still… let it happen… don’t fight for it… or quit on it… listen… and move with opportunity… whether it forward or backwards…
Watching and listing will tell the story of who your dealing with…
But you can only be so lucky to have a child in your space…
date maybe. but i wouldnt set myself up. most women are emotional individuals anyway…a pregnant one is 5 times a normal woman emotionally - which could prove unstable.
my advice. NOPE - just hit it and quit it.