What was the worst…
What was the worst breakup u ever had?
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The worst breakup I ever had came from a relationship that really wasn’t a relationship at all. It had all the elements of a relationship, but it just wasn’t. The heart can’t control who it chooses to love and when break in that love is created the heart breaks as well.
all i can say is: never move in with someone you are dating. it aint worth it.
Haven’t experienced it yet, but I know it will be the day my wife and I go our separate ways…devasting!
All my break ups were equally bad. I don’t like breaking off any kind of relationship, not just the romantic ones..
I believe I invest “what I consider my best” in all my relationships, and a break up to me represents that my best wasn’t good enough… and that alone hurts if nothing else…
I will say, the ones that hurt me the worst are the one that get tangled all up in my life…
Funny how a person says they only want the best for you, when in reality, they just want you to be happy living by their weird set of “life” rules in the fashion they chose best for you…
Yeah….All my break ups where equally bad…
All breakups are bad, it is the end of a relationship. Sometimes its best to move on, each person knows whats best. The end of anything is bad, you have invested alot. But in the end it will be alright.
My first girlfriend while in college lasted for 2 years. She cheated on me throughout the relationship. And I stayed like an idiot. But in the end she broke up with me because “She couldn’t handle the stress of my family.” (My father was dying of Cancer and my mom was homeless). Three days later I found out she really left me to be with one of my close friends.
I then decided I would have more luck with a man! After falling hopelessly in love with that loser I found out that while in a relationship with me he was back in one with his ex-fiance (also in couples therapy with her) and with another girl. Three relationships at once!!!
After both of those I realized I needed to get myself together.
So I agree, all breakups are hard.
I agree, all breakups are hard. The hardest for me was when I quit my job, relocated, bought a house in a completely new state and less than 8months of doing all the above, she decided we should go our seperate ways after 2 1/2 years of being together. WOW!!!! crazy how I missed all the signs…but hey, life must go on…
My worst break-up was in April. I dated this chick who at first wasn”t all that cute to me.Keeping it real…she was not aesthetically pleasing….AT ALL! She also had a horrible attitude. But I saw something in her…and in spite of my friend’s disapproving stares, I stayed. Baye ended up dating three chicks off Downelink. Funny thing is I did her page for her. She couldn’t even write well. Come to find out she was driving to Baltimore to be with the chicks and they AALLLLLLLLL knew about me. They had even met her mother who I talked to on a regular basis. Then she began to have them call my house, cell and my job. I had an emotional breakdown. I cried for weeks. I wanted to know how could this ugly girl break the kid down so bad.For a minute I had a self esteem issue over it. Reality hit and I got over it.I learned a lot of valuable lessons. And I was able to see who my true friends were.
wow femme fatale now that was messed up and i feel ya girl
when u got through things like that u do start to question yourself u know. i was in a relationship a long time ago and it was only one person in it and that was me, so to me that wasn’t a relatioship and come to find out she didnt feel the same way about me like how i felt for her. i also looked at it later that i was much older than her and i knew what i wanted she didn’t. its all good we live and learn from it that part of life so yeah breakin up is and can be very painful that’s if u really cared about that person.
I’M A ROMANCTIC THEY WERE ALL THE WORSE BREAKUPS EVER. IF I WASNT THE ONE THAT INITIATED THEM. DUH..
I guess the hardest is the one I’m going through Right Now…
I love her, and she loves me ~~~~~~> I trust her, and she trusted me…
The romance is wonderful, and we really enjoy each others company.
When we are around others, they tell me, they appreciate our company.
I think she’s beautiful, and I always feel sexy in her eyes…
I think about her all the time. We could have just left each other and moments later get on the phone and talk for hours… I even dialogued with her in my dreams.
The relationship lasted 15 months.
We are both afraid which is understandable, after all, we are connected by our souls… and the bad hurts even though they are far and few (now more today than ever)…
I know the reason we are not going to see each other again is because she says it’s best.
She thinks I don’t see her as the person she wants to be in my life… (the worst part is, I do see her that way) she just doesn’t believe me because I complement the other areas that I think stand out the most… more often than not.
I believe she holds on to bad moments and bring them up when she’s disappointed in something I say or do… The good “far” surpasses the bad, but it doesn’t matter to her, because the bad happened…
I never cheated, lied, called her bad names, walked out on her or chose another before her. So I don’t believe the “bad” is bad. I call it unrecognizable differences (You can’t put my finger on it, but its there)…
She doesn’t want to do this any more, so I have to respect her decision… and I will…
I’m struggling like a “Moda Fuka”
The struggle is over, I know this is what you wanted and needed, good luck and have a blessed life.
robyn,robyn,robyn you were so on point with your comment!