Would you relocate to …

Would you relocate to another state to be with the person your believed to be the one?

November 16th 2007 Filed into Your Block

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  1. Tay
    November 16th, 2007 | 12:07 pm

    I recently moved to Virginia from Pennsylvania to be with “my one”. Although it is hard at times, I love her with all my heart and soul and our relationship has been a long hard process with many obstacles but we have made it to the point where we wouldnt want it any other way. I think its all personal preference, if you feel strongly enough for someone and have that “do whatever it takes to make it work” attitude, anything is possible!

  2. Mecca
    November 16th, 2007 | 12:08 pm

    Yes, I would relocate to be with THAT one. Of course, I don’t think it would be immediately. But eventually, I’d become a local. Why let distance be the only thing that keeps you from being happy with someone?

    Besides, if it doesn’t end like the fairy tale says, then look at this way… you’re in a whole new state where you aren’t known, start anew! Either way relocating is never a curse… only an adventure.

    Peace & blessings

  3. Raunni
    November 16th, 2007 | 2:20 pm

    Speaking from experience, I think its more than about that person being the “one” I mean we all fall in love locally, on the internet, and obviously long distance. Some people have a “healthier” relationship when its a distant relationship,unfortunately, they may not find THAT out until after relocation has taken place. I think you should check out the state you’re moving to.Make sure its a place that you really dig, with or without that person. Make sure that state has all that you need and had where you were previously looking and if its a place very far from your family consider that as well. Also, if you have a kid or kids consider the impact it would have on THEIR lives too, they do come first.

  4. KIA
    November 16th, 2007 | 2:43 pm

    I definently Agree With Raunni because I too have a child & my partner & I would love to relocate to another state but majority of my Family lives in the state that we are currently in. Thinking about the effect that relocating would have on my child has made me think about it over & over again very often. If I could “Break Away” from being soo close to my family & Leave this “dry” area alone I would def relocate to allow things 2 be better for my family & besides if it doesn’t work out for the best you can always spread your wings & fly because your in a new state, with new people who do things diffrently.

  5. mOe
    November 16th, 2007 | 8:29 pm

    I love the way you worded the question…”believed,” as in past tense? at the time? in the moment? In any case, I definitely believe in “the one,” tho’ I no longer limit my belief to there being only 1 “the one,” any 1s can be “the one.” But, that’s another discussion. LOL

    YES! I would move anywhere (state, country, world) to be with my “one.” Love is invaluable and worth taking risks. Life is invaluable and worth experiencing!

  6. B.
    November 19th, 2007 | 12:47 pm

    I would relocate to somewhere else if I really felt someone could for me. Sometimes you have to risk and sacrifice something in order find what you are looking for and if I really felt it in my heart that this person was the one for me I would do anything to have her and to keep her.

  7. kc
    November 19th, 2007 | 1:59 pm

    WELL AS FOR ME I REALLY HAVE TO THINK ABOUT IT AND SEE IF ITS REALLY REALLY WORTH IT. I HAVE A CHILD AND HE COMES FIRST AND I WOULDN’T WANT TO CHANGE THINGS FOR HIM AND THEN IT WASN’T WORTH IT. ITS DIFFERENT IF YOUR CHILD A LITTLE YOUNGER AND THEN THEY CAN ADAPT A LITTLE BETTE THAN A 12YR OLD TO ME.

  8. Sharon
    November 19th, 2007 | 5:37 pm

    There is no rule or law which dictates that you live in state A or on continent X (unless you’re a felon I think, lolol) so absolutely relocate for the woman who will be your wife. Now on the less emotional and more pragmatic side, do plan for changes in job market, housing market, social attitudes; and by all means as a few ladies have stated before, if you have children consider the new environment from their perspective as well.

    Emphatically, yes I would relocate for “the one”. Now alot more complicated is deciding if she’s the one.

  9. Jennifer
    November 21st, 2007 | 11:07 am

    I would definitely make sure that i more than just “believed” they were the one. Having to switch jobs, paying to pack your things and move them, and acclimating to a new environment is a really big move to make. So i would definitely make sure that i was sure they were the one i wanted to spend my life with.

  10. Noney
    November 27th, 2007 | 9:05 pm

    yes, i would if she was the one…

  11. Kidd
    November 28th, 2007 | 2:43 pm

    That would depend on the work situation. Some of us have to be licensed to work in a different state. That would be an issue I would need to discuss, because it may make for sense for her to relocate.

    I think it is a couple’s decision on whether or not to co-habitate, and should be a compromise for both not just for one.

  12. amt
    November 29th, 2007 | 6:43 am

    Sure. I’ve done it before, and it served me well. I have no kids, and no family (so to speak) to tie me down to one spot. I mean, I’m getting older, so I’d really like to settle in one spot. My only prerequisite is that I have a JOB lined up PRIOR to my relocation.

  13. Nameless
    November 29th, 2007 | 3:11 pm

    After researching the state, job opportunities and other aspects of what is to be our new home… yes, I would relocate for her.

  14. robyn
    December 4th, 2007 | 8:38 pm

    Ditto Nameless

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