How do you express….
How do you express your love for your friend and or mate.
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I guess I should answer that first by saying, there is no one way “I believe” I express my love … But there are a few ways I express it that I think stands out the most…
First, I represent the “Us” when she’s not around… I like it when she comes behind me somewhere and people are looking forward to meeting her… not because I said anything about her… but through how I socialize and interact in her absence…
Like when I get hit-on ~~~> I try to befriend the person in place of reciprocating or shooting them down… then…. when they meet her… everyone’s smiling…
I also tell her I love her, and try to do what I know would show her at that moment I’m in love with her (she’s beautiful)…
She likes it when I have everything we are going to do for the evening all planned out, and she doesn’t have to bother with anything except showing up… or when I ask her for a dance in the wee, wee hour of the night, after making love to her…
It aint easy being sexy…
I tell her (and my friends as well).
NATURALLY. What is more fascinating is that I express through the way I look at her, the way I smile as we go through our day, the way I touch her, the way I feel and think of her, the way I talk to her and what I talk about. I say NATURALLY because – it just is! The way I express my love is a constant realization for myself; see, I never intended on loving her. I liked her and enjoyed her company. As we come to know more of one another and experience a personal realization; it becomes apparent that it is love. Loving someone does not equate moving in with each other, opening a mutual bank account, or dreams of how the wedding will be and where you will go to honeymoon. Love is also honor and respect. I honor and respect the woman that she is and the best part is I KNOW she honors and respects me. We have a mutual understanding and respect that allows us the ability to communicate on all levels of life and reality. When you can have a genuine conversation – no matter how uncomfortable or tense; you come out of it unscathed. You can express your self to the point of coming out of the conversation learning something. Love, “IT IS SUCH A BEAUTIFUL THING.”
It really doesn’t matter how you express it… they don’t go by what you do or say……
I love her, and she loves me.
I trust her, and she trusted me…
The romance is wonderful, and we really enjoy each others company.
When we are around others, they tell me, they appreciate our company.
I think she’s all I want in a woman, and I always feel sexy in her eyes…
I think about her all the time. We could have just left each other and moments later, get on the phone and talk for hours… I dialogue with her in my dreams.
The relationship lasted 15 months.
We are both afraid which is understandable, after all, we are connected by our souls… and the bad hurts even though they are far and few (now more today than ever)…
Doesn’t matter what I do…
I know the reason we are not going to see each other again is because she says it’s best.
She thinks I don’t see her as the person she wants to be in my life… (the worst part is, I do see her that way) she just doesn’t believe me because I complement the other areas that I think stand out the most… more often than not.
I believe she holds on to bad moments and bring them up when she’s disappointed in something I say or do… The good “far” surpasses the bad, but it doesn’t matter to her, because the bad happened…
I never cheated, lied, called her bad names, walked out on her or chose another before her. So I don’t believe the “bad” is bad. I call it unrecognizable differences (You can’t put my finger on it, but its there)…
She doesn’t want to do this any more, so I have to respect her decision… and I will..
I’m struggling like a “Moda Fuka”… so expression don’t count… only telling and doing what they need does…
In terms of expressing love to a friend, I believe that there are three key characteristics an individual needs. The ability to be honest, a good listener, and loyal. Expressing love would depend on your friend. Some might need a hug, some might need a phone call every week or maybe even a card/email letting them know that you are thinking about them. My friends know that recieving an expensive gift or treating them to dinner are not signs of love. Although they are nice gestures, it is the little things that you can do to let someone know that you love and care for them. An extended phone call, a surprise visit, a shoulder to lean on and a ear to vent to are some examples of simply showing an important person in your life that you, love, care, and respect them for who they are.
How I express my love now. Action is the best way. And when I say action I mean, more than telling them. But showing them you love them, by being honest, making her feel like she is the world to you and only you, handling your business in the relationship(i mean the “business” part of the relationship. not sex) Taking care of your responsibilities and not letting them become hers. Love is when you feel like sometimes the breathe you take is for them, and when they are not around your breathe is faint and weak. But knowing you love them, and them knowing it. It is all in Action. If you say it, then back up what you say with what you do.
they don’t care about the things you do or say that represents “you loving them”. Women aren’t built that way… We can’t be happy…
they come in your life with a presumption of whether or not you love them before the second foot is through the door, and if you pay close attention, you’ll see it .
It usually goes like this…..
“Why you have too… or Why can’t you… or Why don’t you do something more “… and my personal favorite “do you have to act like that” when this was how you were acting when they lock eye balls on your azz from the jump. Like a hungry cat waiting to attack it’s crave.
Every thing you did was “you” proving it to yourself how you feel for them.
If they don’t believe you love them “So what”,
Women are complex and they describe the “self” they want to be and not who they are, because they are too damn afraid that if they tell you “they want what they can’t have”, then you won’t do the dance to keep them entertained until they find someone who does, which whom doesn’t really exist.
Some will settle for you if you’re a good dancer, and others jump from one dancer to another.
But expressing love to them and them receiving it, is impossible.
Hmmmm…well….I agree with alot of things that were already stated. In all honesty, I don’t feel as though people KNOW what love is anymore. There is no such thing as that “old school” love anymore. It seems as though everyone just settles for someone until they “think” someone better comes along. Love shouldn’t have to be “expressed”, its just something that’s there IF you are with the right person. In the DC area, it seems like woman are so quick to judge and try to change someone as opposed to accepting the person for who they are. It doesn’t matter how honest you are with someone, they are always going to think that the person you are saying you are, you really aren’t. Then, here comes the, “you have so much potential” or, “why don’t you do this/that”. There is only 1 type of TRUE love, its that do or die love! Finding that person that is going to be with you through the GOOD and the BAD. Everyone has issues and flaws, its about finding that person who will accept those things and vice versa. On the flip side, sometimes we allow the issues we have to miss out on people that come into our lives therefore missing out on an opportunity for love because we don’t see what’s right there in front of our face until its too late. So, as far as love is concerned, my question is….Does It Even Still Exist?
You express it by loving UNCONDITIONALLY, because once that is done all else falls into place.