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1. Nicky and Shaun
   January 7th, 2008 | 3:49 pm

   Nicky’s comment- Everyday that I am blessed to have her in my life is a moment for me.

   I don’t normally post anything, I just like to read others comments. Don’t know why but I saw this and had to respond. My wife (Shaun) and I have been together for 9 1/2 years and the ride has been quite amazing. We have so many memorable moments so I will just share the latest. I ordered something for her as a Christmas present and it didn’t come in time. I was quite upset. Finally, three days after Christmas she got her gift and I was probably more excited that she was. She opened the box and just sat there for a minute. I wasn’t sure if she liked it or not or even knew what it was. She finally spoke and said “baby, you named a star after me?” She had this really strange look on her face so I thought she may have been disappointed. To my surprise she loved it and that made my heart smile. You see, simple things make us happy. We are all we need to make our moments. And a part of me thinks that the star I named after her was better than the Sean Taylor #21 jersey that I got her as well. Naw… I doubt it. But I can deal with that!!!

   Be loved

   Shaun’s comment - Like Nicky, I don’t usually respond to postings, but I thought this would be a good place to start. In terms of memorable moments, it’s hard to pinpoint just one. Usually, they start out as something small, and when we start those “Remember that time…” conversations, I realize just how special they are. Like, “Remember the time you wanted to break up with me when you thought you were coming between me and my “supposed” best friend, and I parked my in the middle of your block and stood in my flatbed yelling, ‘I love this woman!’ until you agreed to be with me.”Or, “Remember that time we went to the shelter, and when we walked in, you saw Dot in the cage, and then, you said, ‘That’s the one,’ and we adopted her eight days later.” Or, how about “Remember that time we went to Sandy Point, and there was a dead fish in the water, and those kids kept swimming near it, and then it almost touched your (Nicky) leg?” More recently, “Remember when you told me in the mall that you weren’t buying me any more Redskins’ gear because you are tired of buying it even though you know I bleed burgundy & gold, then you and Shug jumped through monstrous hoops to get me a Sean Taylor jersey in time for Christmas.” EVERY moment I have with Nicky is memorable. She accepts that I’m a sensitive, wear-my-heart-on-my-sleeves sap. She accepts that I’m in Redskins mode 24/7/365, win or lose. She accepts that my intolerance for ignorance and stupidity is leading me to chastise strangers more and more. She accepts me. She named a a star for me, for f**ks sake! (inside joke)

2. Shay
   January 7th, 2008 | 8:33 pm

   Many, many moons ago I was together with my first love. It started out as a friendship and blossomed into something that I can’t even put into words. At the time she was very closeted so any displays of public affection was completely out of the questions. One day, we went to the movies together. For whatever reason we got there super early and there was nobody else in the theater. Out of the blue, she stood up, offered me her hand and invited me to dance in the aisle with her. I looked around and asked her if she was sure and she just smiled at me. I grabbed her hand and we slow danced in the aisle for a couple of minutes before someone else walked in. It was one of the most sweetest and romantic times I had with her. I will always remember it, no matter how short or insignificant it might have seemed to others or even her. Just because it meant so much to me

3. JAck
   January 11th, 2008 | 6:58 am

   There was a time when I knew a womon and we had the most intense relationship and some of my most memorable moments with her were our long talks…in the car. With the exeption of the talk by the lake (our first “un”official date), we would have the BEST conversations about what ever was on our minds, in our hearts or moving our Spirits…but only in the car.

   It didn’t matter where we were, the next thing we would know 2-3 hours had past us and the windows were all fogged up. We would pull up in my drive way, turn the car off and just talk.

   One time, returning back to my house to get her car, we just stopped in the parking lot (I think we pulled up in front of her car and blocking the cars on either side of her) and just continued the conversation we had already started. Well, neither one of us wanting the night to end, I decided to go fill up the tank and just took off. About 2 minutes after we arrived at the pumps, the BIG BLACK SUV stopped in front of us and the HUGE studdly womon came at us…I think she thought we were spying on her. I guess that’s what we get for parking…or maybe not parking!!

   Hell, we had our first kiss in her car…it was late on a Thursday night in October in the parking lot of Ruby Tuesday in Bowie, she had just come from hand-dancing and she was wearing the dark blue pants suit that I love sooo much…but THAT’s a different question!

   Of all the things that I miss, I miss our long talks, open and honest conversations, in the car…and out!

4. Jay
   January 11th, 2008 | 3:15 pm

   One of the most memorable momments for me, is when she called me to tell me I sounded like an asshole on the phone. That same conversation I asked her out on our first date. She agreed, and we went out. She put her hand in my hand, and I told her if it felt perfect in my hand, we were probably meant to be together. It felt right and I wanted her in my life from that point on.

5. Cee
   January 17th, 2008 | 9:40 am

   my girl and i had sex with a man…her idea. yeah it was memorable. not a good idea. yes we are still together. a stronger bond than before. glad we got that out of the way.

6. robyn
   February 1st, 2008 | 8:53 am

   I rang the bell at a building that was having meetings for women, I had heard earlier that day while doing a job…
   The most beautiful woman I’d ever seen came to open the door…
   She said “Welcome” and gave me a hug…
   I remember thinking “Dammmmmm she smelled good…
   During the entire meeting, I could not take my eyes or heart off of her, I think I got a little moist even…
   and who knew… She was feeling the same way. !@#$%^&*(
   We are still together today… 2 years later… and she still smells good.

7. Phoenix_Flies
   February 8th, 2008 | 9:08 am

   The most memorable moment was when I was meeting my first love at the club and we somehow got our wires crossed I ended up at Dave&Busters and she at another place. When it came to be I was not where she was I spoke to her on the phone acting as if I was right around the corner, it took me 20 mins to speed down the highway only to find her sitting in a chair half sleep with a very chronic woman thinking that she was the luckiest person that nite. When she opened her eyes she jumped up like sat on a needle but it was all for ME!!!

8. Neledi Tafari
   March 6th, 2008 | 2:41 pm

   I remember when we played in the snow outside my house. People looked at us like we were crazy and we were.

   Remember the wine fight, when we soaked each other?

   The world always disappeared whenever we were together. Our passionately fierce bond is irreplaceable and I miss you terribily love. . .

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